Category Archives: commitment

Give Me the Chips!

salt chipsI like potato chips.  I am in complete agreement with Lays, it is impossible to eat just one.  My personal favorite is the salt and vinegar chips; whoever invented these should have a national holiday named after them.  For now, until we find out who that very special person is, we could just name it, “Salt and Vinegar Chip Guy Day.”  So, the bigger the bag – the BETTER!  I don’t want one of those small personalized chip bags which come with your sandwich in a meal deal……that won’t do!  I’m going to need to have a lot of those chips, or I won’t be satisfied.

I also love Jesus, and if I love Him then the assumption which can be made is I want to know Him, walk with Him, and be like Him as much as possible.  This is no small bag commitment!  Yet, I find, many believers declare their love for Him, but they only want a little Jesus.  When this happens, there is minimal change in their life.  They don’t put off their ‘old self’ (Ephesians 4:22-24), but they try to find a happy balance between their old life and the new life.  Those lives are not compatible with one another, and one will always win out over the other.  Why do we struggle with letting go of our old sinful practices?  Well, its a matter of chips.

When your former ways are the bigger bag of chips in your life and Jesus is smaller, you know what you have?  An imbalance.  You have a desire problem.  You have a devotion issue.  Jesus can’t be your little bag of chips and be enough because anyone who is satisfied with a small bag of chips is not hungry.  If the small bag fills you, guess what?  You don’t care much for those chips.  If you’re content with just a little bit of Jesus then you don’t really believe He is necessary.  If a small bag of Jesus is enough for you then you’re not pursuing Him.  Whatever is greatest in your life is what you are pursuing; its the big bag.  You’d better make sure its Jesus!

Make Jesus your big bag of chips; a bag you can’t get enough of.  I don’t want to be content with less than all of Him, and Jesus doesn’t want me to be satisfied with less, but more.  Do you want more of Jesus or are you content with less of Him?  If you draw near to Him, He will draw near to you, so give Him a greater place in your life – actually, let Him have all of your life!

 

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Consistently…….Inconsistent!

How many times have you made up your mind to do something only to find yourself not doing it?  You want to eat healthier, but you snack during the late hours of the night.  You want to save money but can’t because you constantly ‘need’ something you can’t live without.  How about this one – you want to live a godly life but seem to trip up on the same temptations and fall into sin.

The problem may be emotion…..sometimes we are more keyed in on emotion rather than the Spirit.  Emotions can change in a flash, they have zero staying power, and are unreliable and unpredictable.  It may seem elementary, but the key to being consistent is to stop being inconsistent.  What that means is this: You may want to be consistent in your walk with the LORD, but your problem is you are consistent in those things which keep you from what you want.

Each of us must understand one thing: We do not have the  power, in ourselves, to live consistently as we know God’s Word tells us to and how Jesus wants us to.

How can I become consistent in living for the LORD?

  • Identify areas which cause inconsistency? (For example, ungodly desires, fear of what others would think if I lived differently…..)
  • Determine to make a change to that area of your life.  (Sure, you’ve done it before, but now you mean business.  Rather than have a desire for what distracts you from your goal, see the need for the change.  Often when see the need, we are on board to do what must be done to live consistently.
  • Pray.  (The likely reason you are consistently inconsistent: you are trying on your strength alone which is a recipe for disaster.  Ask the LORD to help you desire Him, His ways, and to please Him more than anything else.)
  • Get in God’s Word – REGULARLY!  (Spend time here, meditate on His Words, and apply them to your life and you will begin to see some godly change in your life.)

 

Are You Lying to Yourself?

liesHave you ever told a lie?  I know; what a ridiculous question because you have.  Have you noticed what happens the more you tell it?  You begin to believe it too.  Many times our own lies begin to convince us and our perception of reality is changed because what we say happened, actually never did.  Yet, its how we’ve begun to remember it and somehow the lie we tell becomes the truth we believe in.  Unfortunately, there’s no truth to be found at all.

Luke 13:24-30 is one of those passages which disturbs me the most because it reveals how the truth we believe can actually be based on a self-manufactured lie.  If you have this concern too after reading this passage, let me give you one clear directive which will guarantee you won’t live in a false reality where your relationship with the LORD is concerned.

One phrase Jesus says which stands out to me in vs. 24 is to “Make every effort….”…. What a game-changer.  I think many of us would have to admit there have been too many times where we did not make every effort and we expected an impossible outcome.  It was impossible because we gave an effort which can be stated as “good enough.”  The “good enough” mentality somehow lulls me into expecting more while giving less effort.  For instance, we may settle for a marriage which is not ideal because it is “good enough” and so we never work to make it stronger.  Our lack of effort is realized when it crumbles under the weight of the pressure of life because in reality, it wasn’t “good enough.”

We will sacrifice eternity if we think we can live some sort of “good enough” in relation to the LORD.  First, the problem with this thinking is no one is “good enough,” so how could you even think such a ridiculous thought.  Actually, it is easy when the lie becomes the truth.  See, I look at myself and think what is good about me outweighs what is wrong with me, so I’m now “good enough.”

When you dedicate yourself to “make every effort” there is little room to miss the mark.  Jesus knew the most important goal for any of our lives was to find salvation in Him through our repentance of sins within His forgiveness for those sins.  Nothing less will move us to the other side of the threshold except for His grace.

The reality is this….if your life were to end now and you were on the wrong side of that threshold, you would be desperate to get through this door called salvation, but it will be too late.  The decision has to be made in this life.  Rather than be desperate later, make every effort now to ensure you are saved.

Don’t shut out God’s voice to your life, and His direction.  Find joy in His Word of life rather than in things or even people which only last or stay for a time.  Trust in Him, so you will not allow the worries of life or the temptation to gain great riches draw you from His presence.  In other words, keep your priorities straight by making sure He is your first priority…your first love….the One you serve first…….your All in All!

There’s no sense in gaining the world and losing your soul.  If you will make every effort, you will undoubtedly enjoy a fullness in your life which only comes from Him and cannot be duplicated by anything or anyone else.

Commit or Quit?

quitWe all have some projects, ambitions, dreams which we’ve not completed.  For everything you have ever thrown up your hands and said, “ENOUGH!,” you have your reasons for giving up.  That’s right…..you gave up.  You quit!  You said it wasn’t worth your time anymore, so you decided to invest your time somewhere else.  You didn’t see value and whatever you don’t value you throw in the trash.

What’s interesting is why you even started in the first place.  Chances are you decided to quit when you were in a state of mind which did not consider why you even were involved to start with.  What was the reason behind starting that project, committing to marriage, choosing a college major or career, or taking that job?  I believe if you remembered the reasons why you started you would be more committed to what you started.  Why?  Because there were good reasons, well thought out reasons, for starting, committing and investing at the start.  Let’s be honest, when we want to quit, our reasoning is lame at best.  We’ve reached a point where we’ve had enough, and we want out so badly that we will justify our exit plan.

What have you recently given up on because it isn’t what you thought it would be?  Did you consider how it can’t be what you thought it would be if you haven’t finished it yet?  Honestly, you don’t start building a house and halfway through walk in and get discouraged because its so incomplete.  The walls and roof have been framed, but there’s no sheetrock, and you can’t easily distinguish from one room to the other.  You wouldn’t say, “This isn’t what I imagined it would be, so let’s forget it.”  Well, of course it isn’t what you expected because its still in the process of being.  It isn’t yet, but it will be if you will see it through.  One of the reasons we quit so easily is we aren’t committed.  When you’re committed, you are determined to see it through.  You are determined to overcome.  You are determined to finish and finish well.  Much in life is a process, and there’s no sense quitting when the work, your work, isn’t even finished.

What have you recently given up on because its harder than you thought it would be or should be?  The problem here is you didn’t count the cost.  There’s nothing like getting excited, ambitious, even full of faith and not taking the time to consider the cost.  You can’t go into everything in life and think it should be easy, predictable, and follow your pre-defined plan.  In everything there will be struggles and difficulties which need to be overcome, and those same hurdles don’t necessarily mean you’re in the wrong line of work, the wrong marriage, chose the wrong major, or that you’re going the wrong direction in life.  Did you really think the person you married was going to be perfect and it was all going to be for the better and never worse?  Marriage is a challenge; are you going to commit or quit? Did you think just because you were voted ‘Most likely to succeed’ in your High School yearbook that your life would be full of continual greatness?  You’ll have to work hard like anyone else, so are you going to commit or quit?  When something becomes more of a challenge than you anticipated; do you commit or quit?  Do you think your life should be so much easier because you are a child of God?  In everything, we have a choice to make – commit or quit.

In 2 Corinthians 4:16-18, Paul says this:  “Therefore we do not lose heart.  Though outwardly we are wasting away, yet inwardly we are being renewed day by day.  For our light and momentary troubles are achieving for us an eternal glory that far outweighs them all.  So we fix our eyes not on what is seen, but on what is unseen.  For what is seen is temporary, but what is unseen is eternal.”

There’s a truth in this passage and its this:  The troubles faced are working God’s purpose in His children.  That’s not to say your struggle isn’t real, but it is saying you need to set your eyes on the One who is unseen rather than what you can physically see.  If you make decisions based on mere feelings, emotions, and expectations then you will never commit your life to Him as He commands.  Nothing worthwhile will be attained.  God’s faithfulness will never be witnessed.  The power of faith will be a testimony for someone else.  Yet, if you will fix your eyes on God and commit to what He has told you to commit to, and follow His Will in your life, you will find there is little to quit when God has called you to it.  It will be worth it because God said so.  Your marriage will be worth fighting for because God said He hates divorce.  Your commitments will be worth your effort because God gave you the burden, and you’re accountable to Him.  Let’s be as committed to all God has entrusted to us as He has been so committed to us.